“Love is a sovereign experience in human beings only. I still have the physical desire for my first love with me but I do not want to dishonored. I feel good if he only holds my hand but now a days, I will digest the early desire by weeping before him. This pain is not one sided, he had also lived in grief and agitated like me. He is civilized so he cannot encroach upon my prestige. Now there is the question of my social status”. Parijat said.
“The country cannot develop unless there is development of literature. To create literature is not my interest but my compulsion. When time disturbs my peace, only then does my pen move. I am a woman who seeks accepts and worships geniuses. The duty of a literature is not to create a hero. The work of a literature is to pickup and present heroes. I take myself to be honest writer. My honesty might have made me anarchical and disloyal at times. In the form of literature, I feel myself so honest that at least I know the limits.” A Nepali woman writer Parijat had said.
Originally from Darjeeling, Parijat has created a sense of love. She noticed when she writes the poem the sky had become cloudier. Hoping the rain showers. She knew that whenever she looked at her flowers she felt as if the world tittled a fraction. She loved, loved the way she talked and laughed, loved the way she could play, she would love year in and year now. She wanted to look at her stories and poems, look into her soft eyes forever and ever and tell herself what she really felt, but the words were forbidden. Most of her stories, epic and poems have enliven the love and hate relationship. In her stories and poems she has depicted the life of different classes of people.
Though she was physically weak, Parijat was mentally strong and intelligent. She was bright. From her birthplace of Darjeeling, she wrote of love and emotion.Parijat had been continuously writing poetry, and stories on various issues. Parijat writes in depth so she is not difficult to read. Her epic deal with the spread of love and emotion. Her Shirisk Ko Phool (Blue Mimosa) enhanced her as a literary woman and has become an epic of our hearts. “Shirisk Ko Phool” had enhanced the literary personality of parijat. Parijat had written in her stories, There are no definites in life. Of course, our lives are definitely obliged to accept this.
Writer Shankar Lamichhane had said, “Parijat is the first poetess of my era.” He also said, “I love Parijat. This could be the only definition of love and the relationship that I have with her.” Parijat also had faith, affection and love for Shankar Lamichhane. However, she remained unmarried throughout her life.
I know all about Parijat and, by knowing such things, I have also tried to make myself closer to her.
A Nepali writer Iswar Ballav said “Having the power to honor the special qualities of man, Parijat is regarded as the thinker of Nepali literature. The biggest trait of her personality is humanity”.
Total of twenty-one of Parijat’s writings (books) were published. “Parijat is the last writer and the first poetess of my era” Writer Shankar Lamichhane had sung the glory of the litrary personality of Parijat for the first time. Parijat has faith, affection and love for Shankar Lamichhane, but had no sexual relationship with him. They were just close friends from the literary circle, but there was no other relationship.
It might be that Lamichhane had a one sided love for Parijat and it might also be that Parijat was in love with Shankar Lamichhane and it also might be that they created a picture of not being in love with each other to avoid the wagging of tongues in the society. Parijat had kept Lamichhane safe in her heart with great faith till the day she died.
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